The key to keeping a soft look is to use sheer and muted colors and not to overdo any area of your face. You can buy different sheer, beautiful pinks at any cosmetic counter that will look good on all different types of skin tones, no matter whether you are pale white or a deep brown.
If you can only buy one new product for your new look make it a pink lip gloss with brown undertones. This color looks gorgeous and fantastic on everyone.
To create your new look curl your eyelashes and apply either black or brown mascara, making sure you don't use too much. After washing and preparing your facial skin the way your do, softly contour your cheeks with a very pale, sheer pink blush just on your cheekbones, keeping it light. You need just an accent of a neutral pink to give your face a lift. By just dipping the blush brush lightly into the color and then tapping it off before applying it gently helps to prevent too much. Now you add a lip gloss to your lips and your are set too go.